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- Ismawaty Md Sidik
- Hi.. everyone! Like to introduce our member group Intan Shafina bt Abdul Halim, Idayu bt Alimat, Norlina bt Adli and Ismawaty bt Md Sidik. We come from Masjid Tanah, Melaka. Teaching is our career. Intan Shafina is teaching at SK Tengkera 2 but the others are teaching at SK Kem Terendak 1. We joined this blog to complete our project paper for this semester. We really appreciate if all of you support us.
The way to overcome the problems:
ReplyDeleteStart Really Listening To Each Other.
Somewhere down the marital line, both you and your partner stopped listening to what the other had to say. You tuned out the 'noise' and somehow only communicated with your voices and not with your hearts. When you don't hear what your spouse is communicating, you're missing the vital clues that may help you find out what's really troubling him or her. The lack of careful communication is the primary cause of faltering marriages. Remember the time when you hung on every word your partner had to say? Walk down memory lane for a moment and recapture the way you empathized with your significant other. Then translate that behavior to your present circumstances and you've learnt a crucial lesson on how to avoid divorce.
Spice Up Your Routines.
Get out of the marriage rut you've both fallen into! Spruce up your appearance for each other. Make an effort to look fabulous for one another. Very often, marriage sets up regular routines that don't add excitement to your lives. Imagine always knowing the end to every story you read. The boredom is crippling. You've got to deviate from the norm and take let the wind in your hair. Be wild and adventurous. Keep in mind what actions make your partner happy and intrigue your spouse with your passion. You'd have struck a gold mine in knowing how to avoid divorce.
Find the Core of the Issue.
When you dig deep enough, you'll get to the core of what's really the matter with your marriage. You might need help from a counselor to find out exactly what the problem is. More often than not, it's a lack of respect for the other's opinions or an inability to communicate deep feelings. One partner may be more auditory and the other more sensory. One may need to hear how they make you feel and the other may need more physical demonstrations of caring. If you can bring the core issue to the surface, you can find out how to avoid divorce by analyzing the matters.
Commit To Making It Work.
You've taken your marriage vows. It's now time to make the effort to keep them. Saving your marriage is going to be your primary concern, to the exclusion of every other issue demanding your attention. Commit to making your marriage work - that's how to avoid divorce.